When we find ourselves in conflict, frustration or where we just experience tension it is always a very emotional experience. We either take the route which puts the other person at fault or we start to question our own goodness. Neither gets us to healthy resolve and happiness.
Often clients will tell me something must be wrong with them and that is why they have come to see me. I beg to differ, there is nothing wrong with you! You just want to get somewhere in your life or relationship and you don't know how to get there. Not a single person out there are successful in every relationship they are involved with in life, be it with someone or something. We all need trustworthy and experienced support, guidance and encouragement.
You did not hesitate getting to know your work skill, the language you speak and even a second or third one, or the rules that apply to the hobby you practice. Now get to know how to relationship in a way that is also good for you.
Relationship is the one subject that we never learned and yet it is the one skill that shapes and influences your entire life. It determines each smile, each frown, each shout of joy and each tear down your cheek. It wakes you up with a smile on your heart of presses you back into bed with the weight of sorrow and heartache.
You did not hesitate getting to know your work skill, the language you speak and even a second or third one, or the rules that apply to the hobby you practice. Now get to know how to relationship in a way that is also good for you.
Relationship is the one subject that we never learned and yet it is the one skill that shapes and influences your entire life. It determines each smile, each frown, each shout of joy and each tear down your cheek. It wakes you up with a smile on your heart of presses you back into bed with the weight of sorrow and heartache.
This is the one choice you do have, just ignoring it again or making the call.
Only you will know what the next 5 minutes are going to look like...........
